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There are moments in life that feel like a portal opening — and the arrival of a baby is definitely one of them.
When I was pregnant with my second child, I craved more than just the usual baby shower. I wanted something sacred. Something that honored what was happening not just in my body, but in my soul. That’s when I was introduced to the sacred rituals of Baby Blessing — and it was such a powerful ritual for me.
If you're also looking for a more heartfelt, intentional way to celebrate this moment, maybe this sacred little ritual is calling you too.
A Baby Blessing is a ceremony that comes from ancient traditions — like women’s circles and rites of passage — where the mother (or both parents) is surrounded by blessings, loving energy, and support. It's a time to pause, breathe, and fully honor the transformation that's taking place.
Unlike a religious baptism, this is a non-denominational, inclusive ritual that can be shaped to reflect your own spiritual beliefs or just your deep love for this little soul coming through.
There’s something incredibly powerful about gathering your people, lighting a candle, and saying: “This baby is already deeply loved. This mother is held. This moment matters.”
Some beautiful intentions behind a Baby Blessing might be:
Honestly, one of my favorite things about my own baby blessing was just feeling the energy in the room. Everyone was so present. We laughed, cried, passed around delicious food, and shared prayers by candlelight. It felt like a collective hug for my soul.
This part is so special — and also very personal. There’s no one right way, but here’s a simple guide to help you create a ceremony that feels like you.
If possible, I recommend sharing your intention to have a baby blessing with a trusted friend or family member so that they can help to organize and host for you. I have done both, where I took the lead myself and asked friends to support with different parts (ie: everyone brings a potluck, one friend leading the ceremony, one organizes the space...etc)
You don’t need to rent a hall or over-plan anything. It could be in your home, or a friends home, a cozy living room, a backyard garden, or even by the water.
Think quiet, nurturing, held — like a space where you could cry if you needed to, and it would be okay.
My friend Tina from Seasons with Tina has a beautiful space surrounded by greenery and kindly offered to host my baby blessing for my daughter there (the one you see in all the images) and it was the most magical experience.
Before the ceremony, take a moment to ask:
What do I want this moment to feel like? What am I calling in?
Some intentions might be:
This isn’t about quantity — it’s about the energy.
Think of the people who make you feel safe. Maybe it's your mom, your best friend, your doula, or a few soul sisters who’ve held your hand through it all.
Bonus idea I love: You could even make it a potluck — there’s something really magical about everyone showing up with a dish they made, offering nourishment in the form of food. A table full of love-filled meals is a blessing on its own.
Here are a few beautiful, simple rituals you might include:
You can adapt or create your own — follow your intuition. You know what feels meaningful.
It’s the little things that shift the energy.
You might include:
At the end, thank everyone who came and offer a small token — a handmade sachet with protective herbs, a mini candle, or even a sweet handwritten note. Something meaningful, and full of love.
A lot of people ask if a Baby Blessing is meant to replace a baby shower — but honestly, they serve different purposes. Many mamas choose to do both! Here's how they compare:
💦 Baby Shower:
🌸 Baby Blessing:
If you’re feeling called to mark this moment in a more intentional way, I hope this post gave you some inspiration.
A Baby Blessing doesn’t need to be perfect or Pinterest-worthy. It just needs to be real. Loving. Present. Sacred in the way that you define sacred.
Whether it’s just you and a candle, or a whole circle of beloveds — this ceremony can be a gift you give to yourself and your baby that lives in your memory forever.
I’d love to hear your vision. And if this inspired you, feel free to share it with a fellow mama-to-be. Let’s bring back the sacred. One gathering at a time.
If you loved the idea of a Baby Blessing, you might also love the Sacred Pregnancy Journey — my online program for mamas who want to live this sacred time with intention.
It’s filled with meditations, rituals, and simple practices to help you feel supported from the inside out.
